BEIJING, Sep. 1 -- The recently-held 12th session of
the Standing Committee of Heilongjiang Provincial People's Congress passed the
"Regulations of Heilongjiang Province on the Protection of Minors."
The Regulations listed "preventing young love" among
family protection items, prescribing that the parents or guardians should
criticize and educate minors in young love, and prevent and correct this act.
The news has provoked heated debate. Several high
school and university students interviewed said that the "young love" concept is
extremely difficult to define. What kind of love is young love? Some people
think that love between high school students is young love, while others think
even love between junior middle school students is just normal love.
Some psychologists and lawyers believe that "prevent"
could be legally interpreted as "forbid," which means parents or guardians
should not allow their children to fall in ¡°young love¡±. However, it is not
practical to prevent young love, and there is also no specific measure to help
parents or guardians prevent this act. Moreover, simple and brutal "suppression"
is also not conducive to the physical and psychological development of minors.
Some netizens believe that "young love" has nothing
to do with laws or regulations. Parents should remain vigilant to minors' "young
love," but should not simply regard normal affection and interaction between two
minors of different sexes as "young love." Parents should discourage minors from
falling in "young love" as much as possible, and tell them that "young love"
will affect their normal lives and school achievements.
According to a report, a relevant official from
Heilongjiang Provincial People's Congress said that when the Regulations were
first amended, the item about "young love" was not included, however during the
examination carried out by the Standing Committee, a member of the Committee
proposed that parents should prevent minors from falling in young love, and
educate, criticize and help those who have fallen in young love. Therefore, they
finally incorporated this opinion.
Conflicting viewpoints
Student's parent, Ms Zhang: It will guarantee
children's healthy development
My child will be 15 years old this year, and I'm
quite worried that "young love" will affect his school achievements. It is
definitely the fault of parents' lax discipline if a child has this problem.
Making a law to prevent young love will guarantee children's healthy
development, and is a demonstration of love to minors.
Harbin resident, Mr Zhou: Increases guardians'
responsibilities
This law is aimed at parents and guardians. So, the
responsibility of parents and guardians to manage children's young love has
become a legal responsibility. In fact, when young love becomes a severe
educational problem, parents should undertake their explicit responsibility.
This regulation is just the written form of an explicit responsibility.
Netizen shilun888: Scientific guidance is more
important
Young love is normal psychological and physical
behavior during puberty, just like the menopause. Is it necessary to make a law
on the menopause? Scientific guidance is required to correct young love. Simple
and brutal suppression will only make rebellious teenage feelings even worse.
Netizen Mo Jinjin: It is completely unnecessary
to make a law to prevent young love.
"Even an upright official finds it hard to settle a
family quarrel." It is completely unnecessary to make a law to prevent young
love. Laws should discipline measurable and detailed acts but not intangible
affection, not only because there is no standard to measure this affection, but
also because there is no feasible method to enforce such a law.
(Source: People's Daily)