BEIJING, July 6 (Xinhuanet)-- One thing is certain:
Michael Jackson's children now face a universal trauma felt by all kids who
suddenly lose a parent, although the public knows little about Michael Jr., 12;
Paris, 11; and Prince Michael II, 7.
Jackson has
kept his children veiled from prying eyes for long time and whether they
are resilient or particularly vulnerable to emotional trauma is unknown.
An attorney for Jackson's
cardiologist said the children requested and were allowed
to see Jackson's body, after a psychiatrist was consulted, according to media
reports Monday.
"The loss of a parent is a catastrophe" for any young
child, and the Jackson kids will need help coping, said Dr. Stuart Goldman, a
psychiatrist with Children's Hospital Boston and Harvard Medical
School.
"The kids need to be removed from the limelight and any
exposure to television or media needs to be greatly minimized," said Dr. Louis
Kraus, chief of child and adolescent psychiatry at Rush University Medical
Center in Chicago. "The distortions of what they see there is not going to be
healthy."
Specialists said that isn't necessarily traumatizing. It
can give children a chance to say goodbye after a parent's sudden death, and
allow the permanence of death to sink in, said Demy Kamboukas, a trauma expert
and scientist at New York University's Child Study Center.
Kamboukas and other mental health experts recommended
counseling for children who've experienced a parent's death. It gives them a
chance to talk about their feelings with an objective observer who isn't also
grieving and who can assure them that feelings of fear, anger and loss of
control are normal, they noted.
Many kids get over profound grief and end up handling a
parent's death pretty well, said University of Chicago psychiatrist Dr. Sharon
Hirsch.
The Jackson children may be able to, also, she said, "as
long as the family rallies around them and helps to continue to love and support
them."
(Agencies)