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A young couple dress in 2,200-year-old
Han Dynasty costumes at their wedding last December in Hangzhou of East
China's Zhejiang Province.(Photo: China Daily) Photo
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BEIJING,
March 20 -- A Chinese wedding may conjure up images of a convoy of
flower-covered luxury cars to pick up the bride from her home and a feast
complete with the cake-cutting, champagne and endless rounds of toasts to all
the invited guests.
It is usually a happy and lively occasion. But many
young people see such weddings as too stereotyped and out of date.
"I attended two weddings recently, one in Shanghai
and the other in Beijing. They were done in exactly the same way," said Si
Tingting, 25, a media worker in Beijing.
"Each wedding should be unique reflecting the
betrotheds' love stories and personalities. I'd like to have my wedding in a
church, to represent the marriage's solemnity," she said.
A Chinese marriage licence costs only 9 yuan (1.15
U.S. dollars), however the wedding ceremony afterwards can cost a small fortune.
The ceremony is traditionally very important because it is a public recognition
of the union of two people.
Si is one of tens of millions of young people who
want to tie the knot in a different way. Many choose to celebrate in churches,
bars and in parks. Some go for a fairy tale bash, others go for exchanging rings
underwater or high in the sky in hot-air balloons.
Guo Xiaoguang, 26, and Zhai Qun, 25, were married
last December at the Wangfujing Catholic Eastern Church which was first
established in 1655.
"The church's formal service gave me a very strong
sense of responsibility for our marriage," Guo said.
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Zhai Qun (left) and Guo Xiaoguang are
blessed by the priest following their marriage last December at the
Wangfujing Catholic Eastern Church in Beijing.Courtesy of Zhai Qun and Guo
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The couple are both graduating from Renmin University
of China this summer. "Unexpectedly, I cried when the clergyman asked me to say
something to my husband," Zhai said. "Standing in such a solemn place and
thinking about the five years we had spent together on campus, I could not hold
back the tears and took a long pause before speaking.
"Most of my girlfriends also cried."
That marriage is solemn business, is what a
traditional wedding feast fails to reflect, she said.
To meet changing needs, many wedding consultants are starting to offer new-style wedding services.