Living by simple truths
"At first, I shared my thoughts only with my students
in the classroom. When I was first invited years ago to give a lecture to some
800 audience members in my university, I was not sure what their reactions
were," Yu recalled.
"After I ended my first speech, I was greeted with
thunderous applause, and, to my surprise, I found that many of my audiences were
clapping their hands excitedly with tears in the eyes. That scene is always
fresh in my mind and it gives me a strong sense of commitment."
Happy about the warm responses from her audiences, Yu
keeps rearranging her lectures about classics and life. Each time she delivers
them, she would add something new to make them more appealing.
"What attracts my audiences is not my personality but
rather, the wisdom hidden in those dust-laden classics," Yu said.
At the beginning of a new century, many people are
facing too many choices and value conflicts. They are simply disoriented. They
must find something to live by, Yu said.
"I have found that an increasing number of
contemporary Chinese scholars, writers, artists, business people and common
folks are all seeking wisdom from traditional Chinese culture. This phenomenon
may partly reveal the reason for the unexpected popularity of my lectures about
the Analects of Confucius," she said.
In her eyes, Confucius the Sage is "an amiable
elderly intellectual who is always in action to actualize his idealistic ideas
about life and society."
Yu claimed that she has been living by all she has
learned in history books and Confucian and Taoist classics.
"Those philosophical, inspiring ideas and arguments
about human existence and societal life, as I see it, should not be regarded
merely as interesting quotes, glistening with wisdom but of little use for
day-to-day living. Instead, they are simple truths that can penetrate the
barrier of time and space and shed new light for the future direction of every
living human," she said.
Every one of us will have sorrows, setbacks and
frustration in our daily life, but we cannot always take control of these
situations, she said.
"More often, we can readjust our way of thinking and
tactics so that we can survive the annoying situations while maintaining a
peaceful mind. For that matter, those simple truths can help us a lot," said Yu,
who began learning Confucian classics at age 4.
Yu admitted that she lived a lonely and somewhat
painful childhood along with her grandma in a courtyard in Beijing when her
parents and grandpa, victims of political turmoil in the 1960s, were exiled to
rural areas thousands of miles from Beijing.
But now, Yu is grateful for the early education she
got during those lonely years.
"As the only daughter to politically incorrect
parents, I failed to find my friends among small kids. I had to pour all of my
heart into reading books and reciting excerpts from Chinese literature,
including Confucian classics and Tang Dynasty poems. Besides, my grandma taught
me to sing the Kunqu Opera and to write calligraphy with a brushTraditional
Chinese culture took root in my heart from that time on," Yu recalled.
Though always impressing people with her memory and
eloquence, Yu admitted that she remained reticent until she enrolled in Beijing
No 4 Middle School, where she was encouraged by teachers to express herself and
befriended her classmates in the dormitory.
"Perhaps, what I am doing now as a talkative
media consultant and lecturer on TV is guided by an unconscious urge to make up
for my quiet and unhappy childhood," joked Yu.
(Source:
CRIENGLISH.com)