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Beijing, Dec. 31 -- Jervois Street runs through what
looks like an ordinary Hong Kong neighborhood with sleepy car repair shops and
tiny noodle eateries.
But as night falls it gets a makeover, becoming one
of the few places in town where the gay community can be seen relaxing and
partying in public.
Every weekend, two trendy gay bars - probably the
first such establishments in Hong Kong to open on the street front - draw flashy
cars, celebrities, designers and masses of men in silk shirts and tight tank
tops. As the evening wears on, the surging crowds spill out on the sidewalk,
drinking and socializing.
Hong Kong may be among the most cosmopolitan of Asian
cities, but its pink economy remains largely underground.
Unlike Jervois Street, most of the sprinkling of
openly gay or gay-friendly clubs and karaoke bars are discreetly tucked away in
alleyways or upstairs of buildings.
Like the clubs they patronize, most homosexuals in
Hong Kong prefer not to draw attention to their sexual preference, despite
apparently improving tolerance and emergency of the gay rights movement over the
past decade or so.
In the genteel Boris and Matthew bar, many youths
leaning against each other and hunching over drinks intimately will have to hide
their sexuality from the world. But Herman Au is an exception.
The tanned, fashion-savvy 24-year-old event organizer
said he came out to his family a year ago, and has never suffered any
discrimination in the workplace.
"My whole company knows. I don't ever have to hide
myself," he said, admitting however that his parents are "definitely more
open-minded" than most.
Even so, Au said he has had to coax his mother into
accepting that she would never have any grandchildren. The family is the single
most important unit of society in Chinese culture, and knowledge that their sons
will never form a family or fulfill their perceived duty in continuing the
family line is immensely difficult for most Chinese parents to accept.
(Source: Shanghai Daily) |